5 Reasons I’m No Longer In A Hurry To Buy My Own Home

Over the last few days, journalists, economists, politicians and property experts have been going crazy at the news that home ownership in England has fallen to a 30 year low. I find it funny how so many experts are acting surprised at this news when those on the ground, in the trenches, are a bit like “no shit? My rent is fucking ridiculous and I live in a cupboard under the stairs as if I’m Harry Potter.”

Although I’ve spent a considerable portion of the last couple of years with my mind set on buying my own place asap, I’ve kinda gotten to a stage now where I just can’t be arsed. House prices are so monumentally fucked (I know you’re reading this, mum, and you’re going to have to let me express myself) that I just don’t want to be involved. I don’t want to be involved in the shit show that is the UK’s property market. I’ll sit this one out and I’ll return when everyone’s got their shit together and they’re ready to be a bit more inclusive. Let’s take a look at the 5 key reasons I’m no longer in a hurry to buy my own home.

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Before I crack on with the list, in case you’re not a regular round these parts, here are some links explaining what I’ve been up to:

• I moved in with my parents in September 2014 to save for a deposit & I saved £6,000 in the first 6 months
• I managed to save £10,000 within the space of a year
• I quit my job without another one to go to in January this year. Thankfully I found a new job 6 weeks later
• I decided to postpone my dreams of home ownership and rent again instead
• My boyfriend Jake and I moved in together (and this is everything we bought in our first month)

1. I don’t want to tie all my money up

Because I’ve saved so much money in the last couple of years, I’ve gained a real sense of freedom and empowerment. I have my own savings spreadsheet which I update every few days and I like to stare lovingly at the figures in front of me while stroking the screen tenderly and gently whispering “never leave me”. Picture Gollum in your head and that’s me.

This savings fund gives me the opportunity to make life changing decisions if I wish. If I was made redundant tomorrow, I’d survive financially. If I wanted to drop everything and travel the world, I could. If I came up with an amazing business idea, I’d have money set aside to invest in it.

But if I was to buy a home, all that money that’s giving me comfort and peace of mind would be spent on extortionate fees and stressful decorating costs. My money would be gone. It’d be tied up in one giant investment that might not even pay off. Sure, the property’s value could increase over time but there’s also a risk that it might not.

2. The property market, in its current state, is unsustainable

Many of our home owning parents and grandparents really did hit the jackpot in terms of property. In most cases, our elders’ homes have snowballed in value.

Looking at the current property market, it’s unclear how long this trend is going to last. On the one hand, we want property prices to fall so we can actually buy homes using our average salaries. On the other hand, imagine if prices fall after you’ve bought your own place! I don’t know about you but I just don’t want to be involved in this B.S right now.

I don’t want to be involved in the shit show that is the UK’s property market. I’ll sit this one out and I’ll return when everyone’s got their shit together and they’re ready to be a bit more inclusive.

3. Renting gives me freedom to travel

Okay, I’m no globe trotting digital nomad but, having thoroughly stalked my brother’s Facebook photos over the last 6 months showing all the beautiful places he’s visited while travelling around Europe, I am filled with a bit of wanderlust. A few months ago, I kinda thought I’d always be content living in Manchester and just going on lots of little holidays. Now though, I’m not sure. I’m pretty fickle and indecisive like that.

Since I’m renting right now rather than living in a home of my own, I’ve got freedom to drop everything and travel the world if I want to.

If I was offered a £50,000 job in Edinburgh or York or Brighton, I could go. LOL. 50 grand. I’ve got high hopes.

I wouldn’t have to worry about selling my home in Manchester or becoming an accidental landlord. I could just up sticks and move. Obviously I’d have to take my tenancy period into account but that’s much more flexible than a mortgage.

4. Renting means I don’t need money for maintenance costs

Jake and I are having a slight maintenance issue with our flat at the moment. An odd smell keeps flooding into our bathroom through an air vent and we just can’t handle it anymore. We reported this to the building’s manager a couple of days ago and the following day he knocked on our door to let us know he’d been investigating and had found the source of the problem. He reassured us that an expert will come to check it out this week. If we were home owners and had a strange issue with the property, we’d have to find people to diagnose the problem, fix the problem and then we’d have to pay them using our own hard earned cash. If we didn’t have an emergency fund, we’d have an even bigger issue on our hands.

Obviously not every landlord is like this. In the last rented flat I lived in, I had to put up with a mouldy bedroom and a bathroom without a ceiling and no hot water in the sink. When I was a student, we had a serious mouse problem and every time we complained, we were told it was our own fault because we didn’t wash our dishes straight away. Basically, landlords can be arseholes.

Just because the media’s encouraging us to panic-buy the first house we can get our hands on, doesn’t mean we should. Panic buying anything is never a good idea and if you’re panic buying something that costs £120,000+, you should probably expect a rocky road ahead.

5. Renting lets you live in a nicer area you can afford to buy

I’m currently renting a flat in lovely leafy Sale, south Manchester. Although it’s not as trendy as Didsbury, Chorlton or Prestwich, houses round here aren’t exactly within my price range. But although I can’t afford to buy a house here, I can afford to rent here. The property market is so weird.

Isn’t it strange how people buy expensive properties in fancy places because they just *love* the area but in order to afford a place in these nice areas, these people have to work really long hours, sometimes in jobs they hate? They work such long hours that they don’t even get to spend much time in their beautiful home and leafy surroundings! It’s madness.

Before Jake and I moved in together, he lived in a pretty rough area where the streets were often lined with dirty nappies and dead mice. Originally, I planned to buy a house in that area purely because it was cheap, close to Manchester city centre, and would allow me to get on the ladder. But I don’t know if that’s such a smart idea anymore.

I aint about to spend years paying off a mortgage on a house I might not even be able to sell in an area that makes me miserable. Just because the media’s encouraging us to panic-buy the first house we can get our hands on, doesn’t mean we should. Panic buying anything is never a good idea and if you’re panic buying something that costs £120,000+, you should probably expect a rocky road ahead.

 

But, despite all this, I would like to own a home one day…

Home ownership is still something I’d like to achieve. I would like to be able to decorate my home from top to toe, I don’t want to be worrying about being evicted when I’ve got kids, and I don’t want to be paying rent when I’m old.

But I just don’t think home ownership is necessarily a sensible option anymore. It’s just not realistic or achievable for the vast majority of young people.

Although people argue that renting is ‘dead money’ and I’ve even said this numerous times myself, I don’t think this is a good enough reason to buy a home anymore  - not that we can afford to buy anyway!

I’m not going to give up on the idea of buying a home. I’m going to keep growing my wealth as much as I possibly can in the hope that one day, I’ll be in a position to buy. But I’m tired of reading news stories about how home ownership is at its lowest point in 30 years and feeling overcome with this sense of sheer panic.

I’m fed up of looking at homes I like on Zoopla before adjusting my settings to ones I could actually afford- and feeling depressed AF. I guess a murder house is an option? 

I’m tired of working and side hustling 24/7 because it seems like the only way I’ll ever be able to live the life I want. 

The most ridiculous thing is that my hopes aren’t even that high. 

We young people are called lazy and entitled and we’re told to make do with what we have. We’re told to stop acting like home ownership is a right.  That’s rich coming from people who could afford a house, family, wedding, car and holidays without being branded unrealistic or ungrateful.