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Is Buying A House Making You Too Stressed To Shag?

Buying a home, First Time Buyers

According to a survey by digital mortgage broker, Habito, the home-buying process is making people so stressed that their sex lives have taken a pounding… and not in a good way.

One in ten couples surveyed admitted that they were so stressed out by the mortgage application process that they’d stopped having sex.

One in 20 respondents said it caused them to sleep in separate rooms.

In response to the findings, Habito drew inspiration from the Kama Sutra and worked with graphic designer, Noma Bar, to create a series of illustrations linking the mortgage application process to sex.

Illustrations included the “Down-payment Doggy” and “The Prime Rate Python”.

Hooray for relatable finance advice

Considering how serious the financial services industry is (despite ordinary people crying out for more relatable and honest money advice) it’s nice to see a FinTech company being brave enough to do something like this.

I don’t know about you but I’m tired of the finance world being filled with uptight, suited and booted know-it-alls with little insight into how regular people live. This campaign is a breath of fresh air!

How to ease the strain of finding a mortgage

I used Habito when applying for my mortgage and I wouldn’t hesitate to recommend them to others. When you’re applying for a mortgage, it can be an extremely stressful time in your life, particularly if you’ve already found the home you’d like to buy and you’re under pressure to complete the purchase.

When you hire a mortgage broker, they’ll take all the complicated bits off your hands so you can focus on other stuff - whether that’s picking out your furniture, creating a home decor account on Instagram ready for the day you pick up your keys, or having celebratory sex every day, happy in the knowledge that you and bae are finally about to become homeowners.

A mortgage broker will help you from start to finish. They’ll begin by assessing your financial situation to determine how much you’ll realistically be able to borrow. They’ll do this by looking at your income, savings and typical expenditure. Next they’ll highlight the lenders most likely to approve your application and give you the loan you need. Your broker will compare dozens - and sometimes even hundreds - of mortgages before picking out the ones most suitable for you.

Often, the mortgages at the top of your broker’s list will be thousands of pounds cheaper over the course of your mortgage deal than if you were to cherry pick a mortgage product yourself.

If you fancy using Habito as your online mortgage broker, you’ll be glad to know that they won’t charge you a single penny for their services. And, if you sign up using this refer a friend link, you’ll earn £100 cash on successful completion of your mortgage. I’ll get £100 cash too.

Love this advert in the @TimeOutLondon magazine. @Habito pic.twitter.com/v4yg0hmyUT

— TJ Bull (@dgganimation) November 20, 2019

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Instagram post 2278464580048202578_43786404 SHOULD YOU ASK FOR A MORTGAGE HOLIDAY? This post is likely to be most helpful for homeowners, but some tenants may find it interesting too
Over the last few weeks 'mortgage holidays' have been talked about widely on TV and social media, but they've also been misrepresented. I've seen a lot of people arguing that if their landlord gets a mortgage holiday, they should automatically get a rent holiday
Although I'd love to see financially-comfortable landlords letting struggling tenants live rent-free for at least a couple of months, as I'm about to explain, the last thing you want is for their mortgage holiday to be passed onto you
Basically, if your lender agrees to give a homeowner a mortgage holiday, this means that mortgage repayments won't need to be made for a specified period of time. Basically, it's like your mortgage is put on pause
Unfortunately, the missed payments will need to be paid back eventually. This is likely to mean that once the mortgage holiday is over, the homeowner's mortgage repayments will increase
Let's imagine you usually pay £350 a month. Your lender may agree to a 3 month mortgage holiday, meaning you won't have to pay anything until July. But when your repayments resume, you may have to pay £370, £400, or even more than that each month
The exact amount will depend on a number of things such as the lender's terms, the amount of debt you have, and the period of time you'd like to spread the missing payments over
Not only will most homeowners be expected to pay back the missed payments eventually, they'll also have to pay more interest too
Basically, a mortgage holiday isn't as fun and rewarding as it may sound. Essentially, you're just taking on more debt
If you're really struggling to make ends meet at the moment, a mortgage holiday may give you some much-needed relief while your finances are overstretched. But please remember this isn't 'free' money & if your financial circumstances haven't drastically changed as a result of COVID-19, you'll probably be better rejigging your budget so that your mortgage repayments continue to be a top priority
Hope you're all doing as ok as can be♥️
Instagram post 2277711389056691794_43786404 Exactly, @themoneyshed 👏
Now is not the time to scold or berate people for not already having an emergency fund. Simmer down with the "I ToLd yOu sO" silliness because it's unhelpful & unproductive 
Not everyone's financial circumstances have been negatively impacted as a result of coronavirus & there are people out there who would be wise to put money away for the future - especially when our social lives have taken a hit & we can't spend on restaurants, nights out & holidays etc
But most of those without emergency funds are without emergency funds for good reason. it's unlikely to be any easier for them to save now than it was before
We're all doing the best we can & our past selves could never have imagined how drastically our lives could change as a result of this crisis. We didn't see it coming & we're not to blame for not doing more to safeguard our finances
Instagram post 2277285289320014036_43786404 Guess who's got herself a flatmaaaaate! That's right... me!
Today I said goodbye (for now) to my bedroom and moved into the spare room to make way for a lodger
My shift at work tonight was a weird one because I just kept thinking: "there's someone in my flat and it ain't me!" When I got home, my flatmate's door was open so I went over to say hello and to see how she'd gotten on unpacking
Mate. Our girl is COMFORTABLE! 😂 I was only in work for 4 hours and in that time she's fully made the room her own. It looks so much cosier than before. The picture above is from last year FYI
Getting a lodger has been a nerve-wracking process, made even scarier by everything that's going on at the moment
But I'm very aware how lucky I am that this is even an option for me. Put it this way: I'm getting paid to have a flatmate rather than paying to be a flatmate, and I don't think you can get much more fortunate than that
Instagram post 2273370311017044694_43786404 My heart bleeds for them
Instagram post 2273347738203854773_43786404 I know this picture was probably created with toxic relationships in mind, but it's relevant right now too, don't you think?
Mother's Day flowers didn't sell very well at work on Sunday and I think it's because people were choosing not to visit their mums
We've got mums and dads fresh out the hospital, introducing their own parents to their newborn babies through living room windows 
We've got couples in long distance relationships who are having to wait even longer than originally planned before they can see each other
And then we have all the travellers that are still stranded abroad due to repeatedly cancelled flights and the people back at home who miss them 💔
Right now I'm trying to figure out how I can teach my mum to download and use Houseparty when we're not in the same room as one another 📸picture reposted from @secondsapart
Instagram post 2272672653391592536_43786404 'snitches get stitches' no longer applies
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